Happy Mother's Day!
- The Concierge Queen
- May 8, 2022
- 3 min read
Hey Royals! I want to wish all of the mother's, grandmothers, aunts, and godmothers a very HAPPY MOTHER'S DAY!
I am not going to make this long because I want you to enjoy your loved ones on your special day. I just wanted to share how I feel about being a mother.
I am the mother of seven. I have been blessed with four beautiful daughters and three handsome sons. I became a mother on March 12, 1985; three days before my birthday. My life changed forever and I won't lie...I was terrified! Knowing that this tiny, precious life was my responsibility was almost too much to comprehend. Over the years, and six babies later, I know I would not change one thing.
Becoming a mother saved my life and made me a much better person. Because of my babies I found strength that I never knew I had. I leaned so much and every struggle built my character and will to never give up.
I know today is supposed be "my" day, but I have to send my heartfelt appreciation to Jacquetta, Jenae, Cas'sean, Cass Jr., Tonje', J'Tanae and Jenaria for loving me unconditionally and believing in me even when it seemed like I had no idea what I was doing (and I didn't a lot of the time).
To all of the mothers out there in any capacity, I salute you today and everyday for your sacrifices, commitment and love. Enjoy your day!
ASK A MOTHER WHY
No one knows the depth of a mother's love for her child,
There are times when she doesn't understand it herself.
She can give you a laundry list of traits and quirks that bring a smile to her face,
Special moments, achievements and reminiscing on her baby's first word and steps.
If you ask her which one defines her love for her child she may pause with a wrinkle in her brow,
Because those things are only an iota.
If she ponders long enough tears will begin to cloud her vision because she is remembering,
Not just the good, but the moments that her heart bled when her child was hurt;
Those sleepless nights when she didn't know where her child was or if the phone would ring at 3am.
The moments she wanted to throw in the towel because she felt like a failure,
And her child wrapped their arms around her and again their hearts beat in unison.
She remembers the arguments and silent treatments that were prevalent during their teens,
The moments she didn't recognize the child she carried and nursed.
As the first tear rolls slowly and lonely down her cheek,
She discovers the answer in her revelry that she did seek.
Her voice is heavy and thick from the sobs she has swallowed,
A blink releases the next tear that falls over her smile.
Her answer may not make sense to anyone but her,
She slowly forms the words, "Just because that's my baby".
She loves her child through the good and the bad,
When they give her joy or make her sad.
She loves them despite their intelligence or lack of,
She loves them even when she wants to throw in the gloves.
A mother's love is indescribable and deeper than any ocean,
From the first hint of a beat as she watches on a screen 'til she closes her eyes for her final sleep.
So, if you ask me why I love my children so much,
Just give me a minute because my heart holds so many memories and hopes and dreams;
It may take a few to formulate, “Just because they're my babies".
Jeanene M. Hall- Durham
©6-11-18
Until next time,
Peace and blessings
Jeanene Durham is the owner of The Concierge Queen, LLC. She has assisted many business owners and individuals create a healthy work/life balance. She is a published author, mother, grandmother, woman empowerment leader and serial entrepreneur.
hello@theconciergequeenllc.com
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